Single Mom Public Enemy #1 - Money (Not Enough)

Money was the biggest problem I faced as a single mom, especially in the early days of motherhood. I was constantly worried about how I was going to pay for food, gas, rent, and clothes. The basics needs of our lives couldn't be met without a lot of worry, juggling, and praying.

Occasionally I got help from my parent but I hated to ask them for anything. I lived with them for a few months after I had my daughter then moved out. I was blessed to be on the local Section 8 or rental assistance program. I was on food stamps and WIC too so that took care of my food issues. Still, being on these programs did not diminish the nagging worry about money.

There was still mounting debt, being under employed despite having a two year degree, and simply not being able to buy clothes whenever I needed to or do something nice for myself. Most single moms can relate, very few can't.

Remembering the struggles of single motherhood prompted me to brainstorm the ways single mom struggle. I've included the money piece above and added the entire mind map on another page. Take a look at it and see if I'm on track. Did I miss something? Leave a comment and let me know.

Single Mom Public Enemy #1 - Money (Not Enough)

Money was the biggest problem I faced as a single mom, especially in the early days of motherhood. I was constantly worried about how I was going to pay for food, gas, rent, and clothes. The basics needs of our lives couldn't be met without a lot of worry, juggling, and praying.

Occasionally I got help from my parent but I hated to ask them for anything. I lived with them for a few months after I had my daughter then moved out. I was blessed to be on the local Section 8 or rental assistance program. I was on food stamps and WIC too so that took care of my food issues. Still, being on these programs did not diminish the nagging worry about money.

There was still mounting debt, being under employed despite having a two year degree, and simply not being able to buy clothes whenever I needed to or do something nice for myself. Most single moms can relate, very few can't.

Remembering the struggles of single motherhood prompted me to brainstorm the ways single mom struggle. I've included the money piece above and added the entire mind map on another page. Take a look at it and see if I'm on track. Did I miss something? Leave a comment and let me know.

Single Mom Breastfeeding: Save Money and Bond with Baby

*This post is mainly for single moms who are currently pregnant, but you can read it too.

New single moms face many fears about their ability to be a good parent without a husband. When I was pregnant with my daughter I was scared and unsure about how to take care of this new life. I read a lot of books and prepared my mind for the task. I knew that I wanted to nurture my child and have a close bond with her because I didn't have that with my mother.

In my reading about breastfeeding I learned that it is a great way to bond with my baby and give her the best start in life. So I made the decision and gathered books from the library about breastfeeding. I won't go into the details about how I did it but you can read about it over at Sexy Nursing Bras after reading this post ;-).

Single Mom Breastfeeding: Save Money and Bond with Baby

*This post is mainly for single moms who are currently pregnant, but you can read it too.

New single moms face many fears about their ability to be a good parent without a husband. When I was pregnant with my daughter I was scared and unsure about how to take care of this new life. I read a lot of books and prepared my mind for the task. I knew that I wanted to nurture my child and have a close bond with her because I didn't have that with my mother.

In my reading about breastfeeding I learned that it is a great way to bond with my baby and give her the best start in life. So I made the decision and gathered books from the library about breastfeeding. I won't go into the details about how I did it but you can read about it over at Sexy Nursing Bras after reading this post ;-).

A Tale of Two Kids and One Crazy Mommy!

AJ, my, darling son, almost lost his "son" privileges this morning. He was fussing about having to wipe up some juice. He didn’t spill it (I think I did accidentally) and he shouldn’t have to get it up. He was the one who discovered it.

I told him to get it up because we all live here and have to help out. He got made and said he didn't want to live here (at my house) any more. I told him that was fine and that he should find someone to go home with today because I wouldn't be picking him up (hehe).

He looked a bit confused and nervous then he went to get some juice. I made him put it back because since he was no longer living here he couldn't have any of my food. This was upsetting for him.

A Tale of Two Kids and One Crazy Mommy!

AJ, my, darling son, almost lost his "son" privileges this morning. He was fussing about having to wipe up some juice. He didn’t spill it (I think I did accidentally) and he shouldn’t have to get it up. He was the one who discovered it.

I told him to get it up because we all live here and have to help out. He got made and said he didn't want to live here (at my house) any more. I told him that was fine and that he should find someone to go home with today because I wouldn't be picking him up (hehe).

He looked a bit confused and nervous then he went to get some juice. I made him put it back because since he was no longer living here he couldn't have any of my food. This was upsetting for him.